Bringing two people together
can be a challenge; we all have different upbringings, different values, different ways of communicating and different habits that make us who we are.
Despite all those differences, two people can still come together to live happy coexistent lives, but it takes work. Whether it’s the small things on a daily basis or the larger issues that arise, the best way to overcoming these challenges is dealing with them.
Whether you’re in a straight, lesbian or gay relationship, there are bound to be issues that arise along the way. If you’re feeling overwhelmed or frustrated, reaching out for help through relationship counselling may be the best way to go.
How relationship counselling can help different types of relationships:
While all types of relationships will most likely experience similar issues, some more distinct challenges may arise for different types of relationships. The most common relationship types we treat in our Newcastle rooms are below:
Lesbian Couples
Relationship or marriage counselling encourages communication rather than avoidance in lesbian couples. Having and independent expert give you the tools to discuss issues, rather than avoid them is key to overcoming these challenges.
Gay Couples
Having a defined relationship from both sides is critical to a lasting relationship. Counselling can help each partner voice their frustrations, and ultimately work through the issues that arise so both partners are on the same page.
Bisexual Relationships
A bisexual person can be attracted to men, women, transgender people, and/or genderqueer people, or just to one gender.
Some subjects can be extremely difficult to discuss with significant others. Relationship counselling offers a safe place where an expert can guide both you and your partner along a path of understanding and openness.
Transgender Relationships
Transgender relationships include one partner whose personal identity and gender does not correspond with their birth sex. Their partners may be present throughout their journey (exploration and/or transition), or they may enter later on.
Sexual attraction or behaviour is an area that partners address when one person medically or socially transitions. Navigating the shifting dynamics of a partnership can be complicated, and it may become even more problematic if one or both partners' attraction changes.
Relationship or marriage counselling provides a space where both partners can express their fears, confusion or doubts, as well as discuss how the transition is affecting and will affect their relationship down the track.
Straight Couples
Don’t give up on your relationship easily, marriage or relationship counselling is worth the time and effort. If you believe that your relationship is worth saving
then counselling will give you the tools you need to work on the aspects of your relationship that are failing.
A relationship expert will provide a space where both sides can voice their frustrations, as well as work through resolving those issues. Cooks Hill Counselling are experienced in relationship counselling and can offer you a safe space to voice your issues.